Singleness

Singleness and finding the right person for you has to be the hardest thing alive.   Sometimes you think that this person is the right fit while other times this one is.  When it doesn't work out at times, God still encourages you and shows you he will provide for you.
Singleness allows you to be the person that you want to become in life.  It helps you realize that you are content in Jesus Christ alone. It reminds you that you are desperately dependent on Jesus for everything in life.  As Christians, Jesus is the only thing that gives us joy in life.   You realize that it is necessary to cut out the useless things in your life that pull you away from Jesus Christ in your life in order to become you who want to marry become.
Singleness helps reveal the person we should be pursuing in marriage when that time comes.  I thought opposites attract but this one relationship I was trying to make work ended up not working out. When you start a conversation the person talking back has to talk back as well.   Also, the person you marry has to have similar interests and passions.   If they do not have similar passions and interests there will not be a connection.
Lastly, remember that God providing you a life will happen in his timing.  It is really frustrating being single in your 20's.  Being single in your 20's is about maturing and God's leading to the woman/man that he has for life.